Reticently

She killed herself in a place where her kids, my wife's niece and nephew, found her.  It was pretty awful.

Damn that really sucks 😕

She killed herself in a place where her kids, my wife's niece and nephew, found her.  It was pretty awful.

She killed herself in a place where her kids, my wife's niece and nephew, found her.  It was pretty awful.

She killed herself in a place where her kids, my wife's niece and nephew, found her.  It was pretty awful.

She killed herself in a place where her kids, my wife's niece and nephew, found her.  It was pretty awful.

I agree with a lot of that.  I just think that, particularly in the US, there are a lot of competing expectations put on women that catch up perfectly normal people. 
 
People who are hypersexual due to mental health issues are another matter entirely.  My wife had a sister-in-law who was hypersexual because of bipolar disorder, and would fuck homeless guys during her manic periods.  That's obviously a whole other class of problems, not a healthy person who just happened to date more guys than average.

She killed herself in a place where her kids, my wife's niece and nephew, found her.  It was pretty awful.

Who's advertising their body count to their man's mom?  That lack of social IQ is a strike against them regardless.  Irrespective of whatever mom's internalized from hearing all her life that people are supposed to be low key ashamed about having sex.
 
I'm not trying to tell anybody what they should or shouldn't be attracted to in a partner.  Just saying that the whole Madonna/whore dichotomy shoved at women isn't doing anybody any favors.
 
Shit, it's hard enough maintaining intimacy in an ltr after a few years when all the sexual urgency of a new relationship has worn off.  Partnering up with someone who just isn't that into sex, or who didn't have the context to tell if they were even that sexually compatible with you is a really common marital deathknell.

The wonderful Lady D, as imagined in World of Darkness/VTM lore
 

Some of us are arguing about whether it's a thing some people care about, and the others over whether it's a stupid thing for society to care about.  Talking right past each other.

I agree with a lot of that.  I just think that, particularly in the US, there are a lot of competing expectations put on women that catch up perfectly normal people. 
 
People who are hypersexual due to mental health issues are another matter entirely.  My wife had a sister-in-law who was hypersexual because of bipolar disorder, and would fuck homeless guys during her manic periods.  That's obviously a whole other class of problems, not a healthy person who just happened to date more guys than average.

At the end of the day, is about preference.
Like I said, some people do value intimacy and see it as a negative, and is their right to care about this if is something that they feel that can be a conflict in their relationship.
This is regardless if is men caring about women's body count, or women caring about men's body count.
 
Also, like I mentioned, there are inherent health risks for people that are more promiscuous.
There are certain tendencies in lives styles as well that can be easily seen as negatives or lead to negative factors be health, financial, etc.
 
And this is without entering into the psychology territory that can lead to a person to be hypersexual, where in certain cases, can be tied to different personality disorders, or point even to a past where the person in question is a victim of some form of abuse, even sexual abuse, so they end coping by becoming hypersexual as a mechanism to regain control, but usually is not healthy.
 
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Add that the continuous use of birth control methods that involve hormones have been documented to lead to mental health issues like depression in a good amount of women, and it can be easily assumed that a woman that engages more frequently into casual hookups are on birth control methods.
 
It is argued by some studies that the hypersexual behaviours in some women can be a direct result to this, creating a feedback loop, where the depression/anxiety/other mental health issues derived from the continuous use is seek to be placated by their hypersexuality.
 
Combine that with the abuse of alcohol and substance and you have a problem that only keeps increasing.

I LOVE SLUTS!

Gas appliances probably should fuck off into the history books, even though gas stoves are almost always objectively better.  Just have to do it by phasing them out gradually, rather than making people buy expensive new shit way ahead of normal replacement schedule.
 
Body count discourse misses the whole point, and I feel like it's mostly driven by super insecure dudes.  What you want is a woman who has her shit together and is also enthusiastically interested in sex.  If a woman has a high body count and still managed to remain kid and disease free, guess what?

Gas appliances probably should fuck off into the history books, even though gas stoves are almost always objectively better.  Just have to do it by phasing them out gradually, rather than making people buy expensive new shit way ahead of normal replacement schedule.
 
Body count discourse misses the whole point, and I feel like it's mostly driven by super insecure dudes.  What you want is a woman who has her shit together and is also enthusiastically interested in sex.  If a woman has a high body count and still managed to remain kid and disease free, guess what?

True, but the way I look at it is that the power grid already needs thorough upgrading anyway, so we might as well bake in the extra capacity to replace gas while we're doing it.
 
That is another good reason why it's dumb to try and rush getting off gas too quickly though.

Gas appliances probably should fuck off into the history books, even though gas stoves are almost always objectively better.  Just have to do it by phasing them out gradually, rather than making people buy expensive new shit way ahead of normal replacement schedule.
 
Body count discourse misses the whole point, and I feel like it's mostly driven by super insecure dudes.  What you want is a woman who has her shit together and is also enthusiastically interested in sex.  If a woman has a high body count and still managed to remain kid and disease free, guess what?

The crazy eyes on that chick are all the red flags you need to know

Fair point. I guess my whole issue is that with politicians pushing more and more electric "solutions" to climate problems, it's going to put more and more stress on the power grid and cause different problems, whereas gas, with all the inefficiency it entails, doesn't. A lot of climate "activists" seem to ignore the problems their "solutions" would likely create.

Unless it's a MEGASHOCK ⚡

Gas appliances probably should fuck off into the history books, even though gas stoves are almost always objectively better.  Just have to do it by phasing them out gradually, rather than making people buy expensive new shit way ahead of normal replacement schedule.
 
Body count discourse misses the whole point, and I feel like it's mostly driven by super insecure dudes.  What you want is a woman who has her shit together and is also enthusiastically interested in sex.  If a woman has a high body count and still managed to remain kid and disease free, guess what?

Gas appliances probably should fuck off into the history books, even though gas stoves are almost always objectively better.  Just have to do it by phasing them out gradually, rather than making people buy expensive new shit way ahead of normal replacement schedule.
 
Body count discourse misses the whole point, and I feel like it's mostly driven by super insecure dudes.  What you want is a woman who has her shit together and is also enthusiastically interested in sex.  If a woman has a high body count and still managed to remain kid and disease free, guess what?

Cause it is. 

Gas appliances probably should fuck off into the history books, even though gas stoves are almost always objectively better.  Just have to do it by phasing them out gradually, rather than making people buy expensive new shit way ahead of normal replacement schedule.
 
Body count discourse misses the whole point, and I feel like it's mostly driven by super insecure dudes.  What you want is a woman who has her shit together and is also enthusiastically interested in sex.  If a woman has a high body count and still managed to remain kid and disease free, guess what?